Tag: self love

I was asked who influenced me to go into my current career, and got to thinking. My whole life, people with good intentions, some with not so good intentions as well, influenced me. However, the majority lacked the ability to communicate and see past their limitations and their judgments. All but my dad. He began speaking to me in positive ways. He refused to let me and my sister say “I can’t.” He forbade complaining beyond a simple statement. This was the beginning. He planted seeds at a very young age. Letting us know our beliefs were just that, beliefs. Not all of them are true. He supported us as a parent and a friend in ways that most people didn’t. He spoke to us in an adult manner and taught us to ask questions. He led by example and taught us how to communicate effectively. Throughout my struggles and successes, we ended up teaching each other a lot of lessons. Along with the lessons he helped lead me to becoming my most authentic self. He showed me new ways to tap into my mind, body, and spirit. He included my sister and many others in his journey towards a life of joy. He emulates all the qualities and values I hold dear. So when I think about influences, my dad is first on my mind. Another important influence was my mom. She showed me a strength I never would’ve known until I saw it in her first. She showed me how to fight for yourself when it seems the world is against you. She showed me that even when you struggle, and fight for the things you believe in, love always what wins. These experiences have guided me on my journey. I have moved beyond my comfort zone with her and anyone else who challenged the belief that I’m lovable. I decided to move ahead in a career that is based on self love. Where you challenge and reprogram old beliefs. Where you learn how to regulate your nervous system. Where you connect with people who are on the same path. I believe my purpose was to struggle, learn, love and then show others how to do the same. I am writing a new story. I have created a new life, with new believes and they’re all coming together in the most fantastic ways. I am more than grateful. I fuckin love it here!